Change Yourself Before Change Changes You

MB Text 4-17-2015 (Change)If there is one thing constant in an endless series of episodes throughout one’s life; it is change. The objective or purpose of a person should never change, but the strategy to obtain it must frequently be modified or tweaked. Unforeseen challenges may require one to rethink and rework their strategy to tackle obstacles or struggles, which might otherwise, cripple efforts and negate objectives. It is important for a person to not be foreign to, or intimidated by change, so their approach to dealing with extenuating circumstances can be handled skillfully, and with thoughtful consideration.

Oftentimes, people sit back on their laurels without considering that the success they may have experienced yesterday, in most cases, is not adequate for motivating them to seek and pioneer new territories. Therefore, instead of continuing to seek new ways to keep their lives and businesses fresh and relevant, they become blind to their indifference to change. It is at this point, where life ends up making choices for people while forcing upon them a ‘must’ choice for which they are ill-prepared, both mentally and spiritually, to make on their own. If you, by choice, are not the mid-wife of the emerging newness waiting to envelop your life, your efforts are inadvertently helping to sustain your old way of life.

While one portion of your dream can be crumbling, another part of it may be budding; seeking to be born. One phase of your life can be on the verge of total collapse, while another segment of your life is struggling to gain access and existence into your world. My advice to you is to learn and practice the profession of a midwife. This way, you will know how to deliver even those dreams that are breach coming through the birth canal.

Change is inevitable and so are choices. It is better to change life on your own terms, into what you want it to be, rather than wait for circumstances to force change in your life which produces undesirable results.

“Progress is impossible without change, and those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything.”
~ George Bernard Shaw

Too often, I have heard people refer to situations as being able to somehow work themselves out; as if they can correct themselves? I have never seen a mess clean itself up, nor have I ever encountered a solution to a problem not deriving from a person. When something is maintaining instead of thriving, it is slowly dying.

I spoke with a gentleman who told me his 92 year old grandmother had recently died. He said his grandmother worked until she was 87 and stayed active until she was 91. He said the moment she became inactive, she died. The same thing usually happens to people who are young and goalless. There is a 74 year old man who is able to bench press almost three times his weight, and if you were to see him, you would know that he must love life. On the other hand, there is a 29 year old man who is perfectly healthy, but mentally, he is slowing dying. He acts as if he has no energy, he has no dreams, and he’s always complaining about how life seems to have dealt him a bad hand. This young man is just as dead at 29 as the older woman was at 92.

Life requires action! Change is necessary for life to be fluent and graceful. My friend, rehearsal is over, the curtain is open and the lights are on; now live! Don’t lock change out; embrace it, own it, and use it according to your terms. Do not allow change to change your life without your approval.

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What Do You Do When You’re Between Jobs?

Idleness between jobs
Idleness is as dangerously reckless as driving a car at 120 miles per hour down a bumpy dirt road. If the speed does not cause serious injury or possibly death, hitting one of the bumps will.

In retrospect, if you consider the cause or reason for some of your troubles, you will discover idleness at the root of most of them. The mind is a unique mechanism and it requires deliberate actions or else it will conjure up its own actions. You might think that when you take a vacation, your mind should do the same. Continue reading “What Do You Do When You’re Between Jobs?”

What is Leasing Space in Your Brain?

If you do not like what you are watching on television, change the channel. If you hold the remote control in your hand, is it not in your power to change the channel to whatever you want to watch? Of course it is. The television station or programs you choose to view are the images that are leasing space in your brain. It is the same with reading periodicals, newspapers, books, etc. If you ever truly take an honest assessment of what kind of information you are putting in your head, I believe that you will be completely surprised.

Information is the rudder of life that steers it in the direction of its subject matter. People are routinely programmed by the information they choose to accept. There is doom and gloom about the American economy on just about every news channel, magazine, newspaper, and in just about every church. Little does the public realize how this news has influenced and changed the thinking patterns of most Americans. It has affected our homes, place of employment, leisure time, and universities. People are talking about it everywhere. Is there an upside to the American economy, and if there is, why are there not more people talking about it?

You hold the remote control to your life, so do something about it and change the channel. How is it that some people are making a fortune in a financially depleted economy and their lives seem to be bubbling over with joy and excitement? Simple. They decided to switch the channel from recession to progression. There are no less opportunities today as there were a year ago. Perhaps the information in your brain is not conducive to the discerning of those opportunities. Nevertheless, these opportunities are discovered daily. Tune in to my channel, which will give you the kind of information to help you get your whole life back on track. You have nothing to lose and a GREAT 2009 to gain.

Join me and the hundreds of others by signing up at the top left hand column of this post for the “Taking Control of My Life” Campaign, which will give you the kind of information to help you redirect your focus and kick your life into a higher gear.