Give It Your All Or Don’t Do It At All

Giving it your all textWould You Like to Discover Why a Poor Black Youth Became a Billionaire?

More progress and opportunities in life are forfeited by half hearted efforts than one can ever imagine. Something is deficient in a person’s character when they relapse into obscurity when what they are pursuing doesn’t happen fast enough. This can easily cause the average person to become cynical and skeptical of opportunities. In fact, their cynicism reveals itself in their behavior and lack of drive. They become nonchalant or casual in their efforts because they’ve lost hope of anything ever happening favorable for them.

Sustained success will never come to those who are casual in their endeavors. And, if you are in a hurry to be successful, you will inevitably end up making one blunder after another. Whatever you do, it has to be intentional and purposeful. Choose the battles worth fighting and only fight if there is benefit involved. Learn to take your time. Success is always in walking distance. You either have to give it your all, or don’t give it at all.

If you do something half-heartedly, you have more of a chance of losing both whatever you want, and the possibly yourself in the process. You can’t allow fear or apathy to dictate to you because they can cause you to miss out on living your best life. If you’re going to have a chance at succeeding, you have to give it your all, despite the challenges. Oftentimes, failures are experienced by people who give up before realizing how close they are to success.

I’ve discovered that just knowing something isn’t enough; you have to apply the knowledge. To be willing may sound admirable, but this is not enough; you have to employ action to make things work. You must become the change you want to see. Unless you change, nothing will change around you.

One of the greatest weaknesses in life is giving up. The most certain way to succeed in life is always to do it just one more time when something doesn’t work. Do not fear mistakes because God specializes in turning mistakes into miracles. The only way failure can actually exist is if a person is no longer willing to get up. People with options are usually those who anticipate failure in what they are doing, so they run to the next endeavor before they fulfill the expectation of the first.

How do you kill a man with a dream—give him another one. It is easy to give into distractions when your dream doesn’t seem to be working out. Most people struggle with perseverance and would rather capitulate to the circumstances than fight for their dream. It was George Burns who said, “I honestly think it is better to be a failure at something you love, than to be a success at something you hate.”

What you want to do, and what you can do, is limited only by what you believe you can do. Your dream, your business, your family, and your life must be valued enough to lose the fear of opposition; you must work hard and do whatever it takes to achieve success in these areas. This is how you will grow.

There are only two categories of people—the ones who will give their all and the ones who admire the ones who will give their all. Those who give 50%, also give 50 excuses why something can’t be done … Those who give 100%, just do it.

When challenges create a need for me to step out of my comfort zone and exert more energy than I might be willing to give, I consider how preserving beyond them will benefit me more than the discomfort. I could easily come up with 50 reasons why something can’t be done, but how is that productive? It’s always better for me to just do it!

Michael Jordan was not born with a silver spoon in his mouth. He did not have extra gold dust sprinkled on him at birth. He had the same possibilities as anyone else—he just had a greater desire to succeed than most. After being cut from his high school basketball team, he learned a valuable lesson. If you are going to succeed in living your dream, it’s going to take more than talent…it’s going to take you giving your all.

It’s not as important to know how he became a billionaire, as it is important to know why he became one. The why always exceeds the how! Therefore, whatever you do in life; whether it’s playing sports, being a student, a janitor, or working as the manager of an assembly line, if you can discover the why you want something bad enough, the how will manifest with ease.

Whatever you do in life, give it your all or don’t do it at all. It’s not worth doing, if your heart is not in what you’re doing. If You Want More Out Of Your Life? Give It Your All, Give It Your All, Give It Your All!

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What is Your Time Worth

MB 7-21-15 TextCan time make you rich or poor? I want you to think for a moment, and ponder on this question. Are you spending your time learning and planning to die or are you using your time learning and planning to live?

I am impressed with the urgency to do. Action is a unique word that I love to see in motion because I become thrilled by the prospect of its results. I am not impressed with just knowing something; it just isn’t enough for me. However, the application of knowledge is captivating. To be willing is not enough; I believe we must be more than willing, we must do. If people will govern the time they have to accomplish the things they truly desire for their future, they will have more time in their future to live the life they really want to live.

It is a well-known fact that people of accomplishment rarely sit back and let things happen to them. This is because they do the inside work first, something transpires within them which causes them go out and generate things to happen for them. All that occurs with passive time, are the things you don’t want to happen.

Children spend most of their time growing and learning as the world opens daily to their senses. Young people spend time searching for ways to live and enjoy life. Aging people usually stop growing and learning, and have little to no interest in searching for ways to live life, because they’ve decided the only thing remaining for the aging is to sit and wait for time to close their eyes forever. When time is spent, eternity begins. Waiting is procrastination stealing your time away. No matter how old you are, time is available to use wisely.

Living with purpose is the act of living on purpose. In other words, you have a reason to get up every morning with the anticipation that something good awaits you. You view your alarm clock as your opportunity clock alerting you of the time you have for that day. Time stays long enough for anyone who will use it. If you spend too much time thinking about doing something, you will actually end up wasting the precious time you have to do it. Most people spend more time and energy going around problems than they do trying to solve them. Life becomes more challenging when you are actually engaged in the effort, and not primarily with the results.

Don’t let the fear of the time it will take to accomplish something stand in the way of your doing it. Believe you me, when your time used wisely converts to dollars and fulfillment, it becomes worth it for you. When you value your time, you will do something with it. You will not allow others to steal it from you, nor will you give it away to undeserving people who don’t value their own time.

Think about this for a moment; your time is your life. Time is nothing but years, months, weeks, days, hours, minutes, and seconds gifted-wrapped as a precious present given to humanity, and it’s called life. The only difference with this gift is that it is not a surprise you know exactly what’s inside. The only issue which can possibly exist is your ignorance of knowing what to do with it. There is nothing that cannot happen today in the allotted time you have.

We all have dreams. But in order to turn dreams into reality we need to turn time into effort. Your life and dreams are like a garden which requires patient labor and attention. Plants do not grow merely to satisfy ambitions or to fulfill good intentions, they thrive because someone took the time to expend the necessary effort on them.

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How You Can Help A Liar

Have You Ever Met A Compulsive Liar and If You Did, How Did They Make You Feel? For people with integrity, it is extremely uncomfortable to not fully trust someone because they have a serious problem with speaking the truth. Is it possible for a person to be a chronic liar? Absolutely! Most compulsive liars don’t see themselves as lying.

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Can You Help A Liar?
Have You Ever Met A Compulsive Liar and If You Did, How Did They Make You Feel?

For people with integrity, it is extremely uncomfortable to not fully trust someone because they have a serious problem with speaking the truth. Is it possible for a person to be a chronic liar? Absolutely! Most compulsive liars don’t see themselves as lying. Usually, these people believe their good intentions are valid enough and reason enough to not see themselves as intentionally misleading someone. However, they are blind to the realities of a liar.

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Overcoming Deficit Financing

Understanding the why you are in debt is more powerful than understanding the how you got into debt. Discover how you begin your journey to get out of debt and on the road to becoming financially free.

defici-financing-postGetting out of debt sounds like a viable option, but is debt reduction a better one? I believe that one should not put the cart before the horse. When it comes to getting out of debt, I believe the process should begin with debt reduction. The pressure to totally eradicate one’s debt may seem a little beyond one’s reach. However, using the term ‘debt reduction’ may sound a lot less threatening, troublesome, and a little bit more realistic. If you practice the law of first things, you will discover that you tried at one time to manage your debt when the first thing that was done was that you got into debt. Study why you went further into debt and you will be able to destroy the root cause to your debt problem. How you got into debt will only cause you to focus on the symptoms, not the actual problem. Intention will not remedy the problem, but being proactive will. It is not feasible to have a mental debt reduction plan because mental plans do not work. In your mind, you are working on a plan to reduce the amount of debt without understanding how you got so deep into it in the first place. Understanding the why is more powerful than understanding the how.

What I would like you to do this week to self-help your problem is write down your bills, what you owe, and your monthly payment. Put them in order so that it is easy for you to track them. Reminisce on when and why you entered the debt agreement and the circumstances surrounding it. For example-were you going through a divorce and needed the extra cash or something similar? Think of all your bills in light of the situation. This may help you to understand to some degree the habits or patterns you may have followed for years without giving it any serious thought. This can be the start of how to stop getting by and start getting ahead. Do not be intimidated by my information. I am friendly fire coming to destroy the enemy of your life. Poverty is stolen wealth and it is about time we catch this thief for the last time.

Learning to manage your time will help you better manage your life. Learning to manage your money will help you to manage your lifestyle. People do not make decisions about their lives and the things they can and cannot do. Money is the one tool that governs most people’s decisions concerning what can and cannot be done. Little money gives few opportunities for what things people can enjoy. Money is simply a tool used to extend opportunities to those who have enough of it and the privileges to enjoy just about anything their money can afford. The things money cannot finance are integrity and character. If these could be purchased and bartered for, it would not be real integrity and character. It is a counterfeit of the true value of life.

Most people give too much credit to doctors, lawyers and business owners as if these careers are the epitome of an emblem of wealth. If a doctor drives a new Mercedes, most people think his career fits the car. If a professional actor drives a Bentley, we without fail, would say the career fits the car. The truth of the matter is that there are many financially broke doctors, lawyers and actors that are broke because the career does not guarantee the skills to manage their money. Many wealthy janitors, teachers, and truck drivers gained their wealth status by making smart choices with their money. If you personally knew a janitor who was driving a new Mercedes Benz, you would probably think that he won the state lotto or something similar. Your chosen profession is not necessarily the key to your wealth, but your knowledge is.

For every one of us that succeeds, it is because there is somebody there to show you the way out.
~Oprah Winfrey

Accept the help from others who happen to know a little more than you. As a smart man or woman, it can save you a lot of grief and further embarrassment. Get connected to the real power to change and you will make a determination that life just got easier.