If Others Can Succeed, You Can Do It Too!

MB Text 3-29-2015There are certain myths and beliefs about why some people seem to overcome life’s struggles, and somewhat thrive through the ranks with such ease. I’m not talking about those who inherited money from their great or great, great grandparents, but rather the people who had humble beginnings and tragic upbringings, yet whose gifts or talents opened many doors for. In comparison, there are millions of people with great abilities who are smart and intelligent, yet it seems as if life is passing them by.

When you hear and read the stories of people who have risen out of humble or poor conditions such as Michael Jordan, Mark Zuckerberg, Oprah Winfrey, Howard Schultz, Russell Simmons, Earvin (Magic) Johnson, John Paul DeJoria, and others who have come from low income lifestyles only to rise to the lifestyles of the rich and famous; You can almost believe to a large degree that maybe there are people who had a little extra gold dust sprinkled on them at birth.

These are some of the people of which 90% of us look at as being super- human, or as having some special gift that most people in this world just don’t have. Perhaps, they sold their soul to the devil in exchange for wealth and success. Now, as outlandish as this may sound, some people will accept this as a reality to justify why they just can’t seem to get over the hump.

Well, let me tell you the truth. Not one single person has any more ability to succeed in life or business than you. Life doesn’t have to be hard; it has to be functional and purposeful. You have to add meaning to your life; and goals, dreams, and vision are one way to add significance. Some people excel at life and business and some don’t – which one are you?

Contrary to popular belief, there are no codes to crack, safes to pick, or mysteries to solve. All that is required is to understand that the so-called-secret hidden behind a successful life, is diligence. You have to know what you want, and you have to want it bad enough to go for it regardless of the sacrifices it demands. Sometimes, the only thing blocking you from reaching your goal is the one thing you have a difficult time letting go. So, what’s blocking you?

“Great achievement is usually born of great sacrifice, and is never the result of selfishness.”
~Napoleon Hill

When people come to me about what they would like to do with their lives, I usually try to get them to make the decision to start the journey of reaching their goals before they find an excuse they can believe. If you give them a ‘What if it doesn’t happen’ scenario, you will have just reduced their dream or goals to an excuse. The excuse would prove to be just what they were looking for, because the demands may be greater than their desire. There is no room in my life for excuses—every space is occupied.

If you want to be a winner, change your philosophy about what it requires now! If you think you are totally incapable of owning and running your own business, then make that your goal. Why? It’s hard to keep score without a goal. Life needs adventure, excitement, and challenge; without these you’re just waiting for the grave.

Did you know that you only have today to get tomorrow right; but you cannot use today to correct the wrongs from yesterday? Belief in yourself and in your God-given abilities is a premium. Real confidence and empowerment is not determined by knowledge. Knowledge is from the past, which means it is safe but outdated. Why? Because what got you here, won’t get you there!

Some knowledge conflicts with originality and innovation. Knowledge is experience, and most people wish they had avoided most of the experiences they’ve encountered during their lifetimes. Experience can be an inhibitor to your success because it is built on solutions to old problems and situations. If you have the knowledge you most likely will use it again. Experience is the opposite of being imaginative and resourceful.

Find your true authentic self, and you will discover your hidden treasure. However, if you continue to search outside of yourself, you will only seek to be a cheap carbon copy of a great original.

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The Power to Make Decisions

“If the right choices are made, then the appropriate rewards must be given.”
~Dr. Mikel Brown

Decisions

There was a Doctor who was at his wit’s end about making decisions and seeing all the patients he had in the waiting room. His nurse came into his office and said, “There’s a patient in the waiting room who claims to be invisible.” The Doctor replied, “Tell him I can’t see him!” (LOL)

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Can You Pass the Entrepreneur Quality Test Pt.2?

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So, you want to be an entrepreneur. In my last blog post, I started with a series of questions and I will do the same in the second part of this blog post to refresh your memory. If you have not read part one of this blog post, I suggest you read it to receive a better understanding of the process of developing entrepreneurial skills.

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Can You Pass The Entrepreneur Quality Exam?

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Do you have what it takes to be your own boss? Do you possess the skills to meet the prerequisites of an entrepreneur? Starting a new business is both exciting and rewarding, but it is also full of challenges. The level of commitment that you will need should not be underestimated. Setting up your own business requires your full commitment and nothing less. Can you extradite your time, energy, money, skills and knowledge with no sure-promise that you will succeed?

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Achieving Success in 2009

“I have learned that if one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours.”
–HENRY DAVID THOREAU

People often encounter obstacles, as they are moving towards their desires. Mistakenly, they allow these obstacles to become indicators that they should no longer pursue their dream. However, obstacles are a part of life’s challenges. If it were easy to achieve success, then we would have more people succeeding in this nation.

The truth of the matter is, achieving success is very cumbersome. From working to lose weight to laboring to achieve financial freedom, there will be opposition with every attempt. Overcoming the challenge in order to reach your goal is oftentimes more rewarding than the goal itself. In fact, the thrill of obtaining the prize is often short lived in comparison to the grueling and mental toughness needed to effectively reach one’s expectations.

Athletes were asked what did they miss the most about the sport that they played. Almost all of them said they missed getting physically and mentally prepared for the challenges and obstacles. Fighting to win in life is no different from fighting to win in sports. Both have hurdles that must be overcome or else the opposition will win every time. Pursuing your dream for 2009 is more important than what you may not have accomplished in 2008.

One year has been lived and another year has yet to be lived. Which year do you deem more valuable? Ask God for strength and get up and take control of 2009. Your best days are ahead.